I guess sexual fantasies and masturbation is ok...

Thanks all for your comments. Actually I feel a lot better. I decided to google a bit for some answers especially on Christians and masturbation.

Actually I was surprised to find that masturbation is not a sin in the bible. But LUST is. And because masturbation is highly associated with lust, thus it can potentially be a sin. Basically it is difficult to isolate the two because it is usually due to lust that people masturbate.

Anyway, so I guess masturbation is alright. However, if too much and it becomes a sexual addiction or you are masturbation and thinking of someone eg lusting over him or her, then it is wrong.

So it is a very thin line.

I guess if you are married and you are thinking of your spouse. It is probably ok. But the same applies, if it becomes a sexual addiction or lust, then it is a sin. In any case, if you are married you are free to have sex, you should not be masturbating too much right??!! :)

Btw....some level of masturbation apparently is good for married couples...Read this.